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How to Handle Difficult People 

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In this episode, you will dive deep into how to respond to disrespect, gaslighting, and exactly what to say when someone tries to brush off their behavior with, “I was just joking.” 

You and Mel are both learning from trial lawyer Jefferson Fisher, who is known for his straightforward advice, tips, and tricks on how to communicate better. 

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Stand up for yourself without being unlikable. 
Handle disrespect without losing your cool. 
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Set boundaries without feeling guilty 
Reclaim your confidence in seconds 
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In this episode:
0:00 Welcome
4:38 Understanding Difficult Personalities
9:10 Techniques for Dealing with Conflict
23:27 Handling Belittlement and Disrespect
28:36 Dealing with Rude Behavior in Public
31:05 Responding to Difficult Personalities
35:09 Understanding Gaslighting
42:15 Communicating with Narcissists
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